Exploring the German Way of Life
Differences and Similarities between Americans and Germans
May 4, 2009 Britta Stromeyer Esmail
Historically, Germany, has played a prominent role in international affairs. The German experience has been one of contrasts – war and peace, poverty and prosperity, unity and division, victory and defeat. Germany has enjoyed the praise of other nations and has also lived with the wrath and scorn of the world.
Personality Differences between Germans and American
Upon a first meeting, Germans tend to be withdrawn, yet formal which can often be perceived by Americans as cold and emotionless. What Americans may interpret as bad manners, can be natural to Germans. For example, whispering in groups is acceptable and bumping into someone without “excuse me” is not considered rude.
In conversation, Germans want to be right and often appear more combative in this regard. Many of the older generation want to prove that they are wiser than you which is not meant to be rude but rather informative. Additionally, German humor is more satirical and crass than American jokes.
Germans pride themselves on the cleanliness of their cities and towns. Rarely will one see garbage left in the streets as the environment is valued and an important issues and recycling is a nation-wide effort.
Relationships develop more slowly in Germany than America and there is a clear distinction between a friend and an acquaintance. Details about personal matters are usually not disclosed to an acquaintance.
The German View of Life
There are two main traditional religious affiliations within Germany: Protestant and Catholics. Both groups take work, play and life seriously. Time set aside for play is the same as in America, but play in Germany is more organized. There are a variety of clubs and organizations that exist for hiking, hunting, fishing, sports, sailing and almost any other activity. One of the favorite leisure activities is hiking, climbing the Alps in the South and biking riding along the Danube or Rhine.
Because of the countries history of conflict and war, people have a great awareness of mortality and suffering. They tend to enjoy the moment and celebrate holidays and life’s special events more than Americans. Particularly religious holidays are strictly celebrated with the family and invited friends and it is considered rude to call or visit on those days.
Whereas Americans tend to see life as an upward movement with life getting better, Germans are more likely to perceive life as an ever changing of good and bad seasons which is a very Kafka-ist view of life.
Customs in Addressing Germans
Germans have a more formal and structured way of addressing one another. “Frau”, and “Herr” (and “Sie”) followed by the last name are the formal greetings and should be strictly observed. The less formal addressing of “Du” is only common among friends, students and children. Americans should not address a German by his or first name unless invited to do so. Among adults, the informal way of addressing one another always has to be offered by the older person and is a gesture of close friendship and trust and usually celebrated with a toast.
Germans have a great sense of community, which is prevalent in a number of different areas throughout societal life. Germany’s long and interesting history, excellence in arts and ideal location for travel make it among the most inviting nations to visit and explore.
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